会勾起我性欲的是:
Wife- watching other men/women masturbate by themselves or with a partner, being watched or any form of live voyuerism, but what makes her the wettest is sucking other mens cocks while husband watches and masturbates!
Husband- voyeurism, bondage, etc. But mostly watching wife with other men/women pleasing and being pleasured.
会浇灭我性欲的是:
For both- ,peeing,farting on ourselves or others etc. But if its your thing more power to you!